“There is one thing and only one thing that causes unhappiness. The name of that thing is attachment.” — Anthony De Mello —
Attachment is what makes it so difficult for people to change, even when change is a constant in our lives.
What are you hanging onto that is outside of your reasoned choice?
How long we keep things the same is outside of our control. All that is within your control is your reasoned choice.
Accept what happens. Make your reasoned choice. The sooner the better.