It’s squarely on you to determine the course of what influences you and what you in turn influence yourself. Know and apply what you have learned in the experience toward the clear purpose you are working toward. Otherwise, any imagined decision and action given to you might suffice. Set your course and seek to help set the course of others to reach their purpose.
“When we turn around & come face to face with our destiny, we discover that words (spoken) are not enough. I know so many people who are brilliant speakers but are quite incapable of practicing what they preach. It’s one thing to describe a situation & quite another to experience it.” “I realized a long time ago that a warrior in search of his dream must take his inspiration from what he actually does & not from what he imagines himself doing.” — Paulo Coelho —