Why look to others to find the solution for your problems? It may appear easier, but it isn’t.
You are the only one experiencing the problem and the effects of the problem in you own, unique way. Another will not experience this just as you do. Recognizing this, it would make no sense for you not to hope another could do it for you.
Thinking for yourself to solve your problem is more difficult, this is why people look to others. It is also quite convenient to judge another’s thinking rather than to have thought for yourself for an undetermined outcome.
We best think and evolve for earned wisdom and experience to think for ourselves. This can’t be done to us, or for us.
“Who looks outside, dreams; Who looks inside, awakes.” — Carl Jung —